Raise Web Wise Kids
July 23, 2008
Although we know that the American child abduction rate is way over hyped (see The Momstyle News post “There are only 115 kidnappings per year“) it is still a parent’s responsibility to teach a child how to negotiate safety situations. Parents can probably go off the high blood pressure medication they’ve been prescribed for their worry over child safety, but they still are the primary educators of their children and have to deal with some level of stranger-danger education. Throughout life kids are going to encounter wierdos and an important life skill is being able to recognize and deal with them.
The internet does put children, especially teens, in the path of malevolent strangers. Don’t let this worry you too much. Your kids are smart and with your guidance they can develop a healthy level of cynicism that will give them good judgement about situations that could lead them into trouble. The challenge for many parents is, when it comes to the internet, they don’t know where to start.
Here is one option. Web Wise Kids has a series of educational computer games, for parents, kids, teachers and law enforcements officers, that teach internet safety. The parent education program is called “Wired With Wisdom” and it walks even the most un-tech-savvy parent through social networking, e-mail, cell phone use, instant messaging, and general internet safety issues. The kid games are designed for tweens and teens. They are actual computer games that take kids through the experience of being hood-winked by internet predators, so that they can learn to recognize the signs and avoid the real thing.
The games cost between $20 and $40 each. You can preview videos of the game content at the website www.WebWiseKids.org
Entry Filed under: Internet. Tags: children, Internet, kids, online, predators, safety, teenagers, teens.
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Alex Steed [of Make Something Happen] | July 24, 2008 at 4:14 pm
Re: Teenagers and the Internet –
I have been checking out a lot of the blogs that feature horror stories about teenagers and the Internet – and there is truth to them. I am sometimes surprised that I survived pieces of my youth since I was online at a time when many parents just thought it was all about stock quotes and encyclopedias.
I do think that there is value in teaching kids how to engage, similarly to your suggestion about education/kids games. There are so many ways that kids can get involved in online engagement/politics/issues and become proactive members of society. They can empower themselves. The model obviously works different from how it did for parents, and parents should be figuring out how to look at the world in a less top-down fashion so that they can motivate/challenge their teens successfully. Just as in “real life,” more positive, constructive engagement online leads to less time for engaging in risky behavior (Danah Boyd made this point in a Frontline special not long ago).
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Lee Lacy | August 17, 2008 at 8:06 pm
For a fun way for parents to jump-start a discussion about internet and social networking safety, here’s a website that includes an instructional video and a very easy quiz.
http://www.auntlee.com/safety/
The video is a selection of silly clips supposedly posted to the MySpace pages of the famous auntlee.com puppy and some of her friends. The clips demonstrate mistakes kids can make online.
The 10 question quiz covers the topics of cyber-bullying, privacy, safety, dangers of spyware and malware, etc.
The quiz doesn’t really focus on stranger-danger type concerns but rather gently and humorously reminds the reader that it’s possible to hurt people’s feelings, to mislead people who don’t realize you’re joking, to remember that online postings can be seen by anybody and that postings are often impossible to remove once posted.